Categories: Fur kids

Bedfellows (Dakota)

Dakota came home today, after two surgeries for being hit by a car. She has two drains, and stitches from a few inches from her spine, all the way down and around to an inch from her vagina — hundreds of stitches. She gets pain meds and antibiotics. The vet says she cannot jump, and needs to be on bed rest for 2 weeks. No excitement, no running, no fun for the puppy. Just quiet, peaceful bed rest. I have 3 other dogs. And a job. How is that possible?

The no running and bed rest are pretty doable. I’m lucky enough to work at home. I’ve been worried about how to keep her from jumping, though. Her place is in bed with me. She has to jump to get on the bed. What to do? I bought her a special bed. A $50 bed, to place on the floor next to mine. She loved it in the car. But would she prefer it over sleeping with me? Somehow, I doubt it. I think she will try to jump, which could open everything up again, requiring a THIRD surgery. Plus there is the excitement of 3 other dogs. No way.

So, I moved a mattress into my cottage — on the floor. No jumping for her, and no other dogs to worry about. Just Dakota and me, spending the night (probably many nights) on the floor in the cottage. It’s like camping out, sorta. I have heat, a chamber pot, some water in a jug. A kind of odd camping out, as I have electricity, internet, and DVD to watch tonight, some champagne to celebrate the return of the love of my life, and we are happy campers. Ten days of this? I’ll do what I have to do.

I have tried to primarily report on conditions in Big Sur, either fire, flood, or wildflowers. I have tried to keep from making it “personal.” I was a private person. But Dakota’s accident changed all that, and I find myself making this blog personal. Once she is well, I hope to get back to the regularly scheduled programming my readers have come to expect. I hope you will bear with me until then. I hope. 

Oh, and on my regularly scheduled programming? There was to be a  new post on the Cal-Trans project page, but the announcement won’t open. However, there is to be rockfall drapery replacement on Rain Rocks, which will cause delays. Until I can get the details (days, hours, etc.) that is all I have. But I do understand. The darn things are FULL!!

bigsurkate

Appointed appellate counsel for indigent defendants (retired.) I have lived in Big Sur since 1984, first on the north coast, and on the South Coast since 1989.

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  • Welcome home Dakota!! Kate...they make dog 'steps' for doggies to climb onto couches, beds, etc. My sister had to get some for her aging Chow (who has since passed away, bless her). If you're not wanting to buy any, maybe a wooden box or two stacked, or secured together...by some handsome local carpenter? :) Cleo (my sister's dog) used the steps often and benefitted greatly from them.

    Much healing to Dakota...and you.

  • Kate,
    I liked that you add some of the information about your daily life. I think it helps to dispell some of the huge misconceptions about Big Sur: a retreat for the ultra-rich, wide open free land for the drug use inclined, or national park where anything goes.
    I am always amazed when speaking with tourists who honestly think that Big Sur folks play "contractor" or "gardener" by day with a huge trust fund to keep them well heeled. LOL!
    FireFox

  • I'm with Tzila on getting that handsome local carpenter to help you make some steps for Dakota even if you really don't need them. hehehe

    Glad Dakatoa's home and safe under your watchful eye. I remember all too well how the bonding digs deep and the feelings we have with our furry children. I miss my Sierra terribly and too old to get another puppy. At least we have our other two dogs even if they are more Rob's than mine.

    Dakota i'm still praying for your full recovery so you can take your momma and the other part of your pack down to the beach for a good romp! }}}HUGS{{{

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