Categories: Big Sur

Open Letter of Gratitude to the Big Sur Community

An Open Letter to the Big Sur Community:

On March 30th, my daughter and I were among those trapped in the Highway One Rocky Creek Slip Out. This letter is written with the hope that our overwhelming gratitude is communicated to all those in Monterey County and the Big Sur Community who took such wonderful care of us and other visitors, during this Saturday night and Easter Sunday.

Starting at 4 PM on Saturday, as we were finishing a late lunch at Nepenthe, we were informed of the slippage and road closure in both directions. In the early hours, all anyone knew was we were stuck in the area for at least the night and much more likely, for a few days or even more. Talk of possible helicopter rescues and walk throughs were added to the mix of possibilities.

Needless to say, we were scared and unsure what to do, as all of our possessions were at the Pine Inn in Carmel. We made our way to the General Store at the Big Sur River Inn and stocked up on essentials, such as water and sweatshirts to stay warm and hydrated. With our cell phones draining as we made calls to find a room and to your amazing Big Sur Public Emergency department, my daughter asked to charge her cell phone at the River Inn front desk, and they willingly agreed. That led to an amazing connection with what has to be the most comforting General Manager at the River Inn, Colin Twohig. He listened as we explained our situation and reassured us that the community was set up to help us and not to worry. We sat on a couch at the rear of their restaurant, and he introduced us to Rafi, an employee of the Inn and a firefighter in the area. He told us that his neighbor, Melina Mara, had a small cabin room to offer us overnight. Her hospitality and kindness was beyond our imagination. After a scary drive up a long, dark, and winding road, we hunkered down for the night. In the morning, she invited us up to her main house, made coffee, offered food and comfort, and assured us she would be letting us know of any developments as soon as they happened.

And soon they did! At around 11 AM, she let us know there would be a convoy of cars allowed to leave on the Northbound lane starting at noon. We left immediately and lined up around nine miles south of the slip point. At exactly noon, the line began slowly moving forward and by about 1 PM, we passed the danger spot where seemingly, a bite had been taken out of the southbound lane. Our joy and sense of gratitude simply exploded!

The coordination of so many groups and the number of people in your amazing community who came together on a Sunday to help others is an inspiration to us and should be a model for any neighborhood across America in what caring for others looks like! The Pine Inn in Carmel held our room and Annette at the Front Desk stayed in contact with us and welcomed us with open arms when we returned. The California Highway Patrol, the Big Sur Fire Department, the Community Association of Big Sur, and the Monterey County Sheriff’s department had dozens of personnel stationed on the road directing traffic and assessing the situation. CalTrans5 updated their website as often as they could and the hospitality industry in the area set up a conference room for anyone who needed to stay warm at the Big Sur Lodge. So many and hotels offered discount or free rooms to those in need. 

This is a community filled with people who opened their hearts and pocketbooks to make a tenuous situation bearable for strangers and we now have a renewed sense of gratitude and appreciation for the importance of helping others whenever possible. 

All of your kindnesses will never be forgotten!

Melinda and Kelsey Kopp

bigsurkate

Appointed appellate counsel for indigent defendants (retired.) I have lived in Big Sur since 1984, first on the north coast, and on the South Coast since 1989.

View Comments

    • Didn’t it though? That’s Big Sur for you. For anyone who says Big Sur hates its tourists, this letter proves them wrong.

  • I'm glad hear that a bad situation turned into another wonderful Big Sur adventure. Kudos to all the people who stepped in to fill the void.

    Those of us living here are used to be ultra flexible and try to be super prepared and even we get caught. I'm sure there's a lot of stories of the locals too who were trapped away from home, but at least for us, it probably wasn't the 1st time and we know what we're dealing with.

  • What a perfectly beautiful testimony to the graciousness and care Big Surians offer, when the cards are turned and all appears to be confusing and anxious for visitors to our amazing coast. There is nothing quite like turning fear into love. ❤️ ❤️❤️

  • What a lovely and inspiring letter! I grew up in Big Sur and were trapped many times between slides. Everyone always helped each other and shared all provisions to be sure everyone was rmtaken care of. It is very heartwarming to know kindness and open hearts helped you! It must have been quite scary to not know the area and trapped! It can be a scary drive without any issues! Thank you again for scaring your story! And blessings to all the folks who helped you!!!

  • Glad everything went well for you and your daughter....Colin was my neighbor once and probably one of the nicest guys you will ever meet.

  • Actually, that's a universal human principle. When the going gets tough, the tough get going. Or, to paraphrase one by Alexander Reid Martin: "Dinna fegit, 'tis frriction's brrisk rrough rrub 'at pr'vides the VITAL SPARK!

Share
Published by
bigsurkate

Recent Posts

Happy Easter, 2026

Given the US situation, the economy, and the world situation, it might not be the…

16 hours ago

Remembering & Honoring

I am always grateful that I had him in my life for 36 years.

3 days ago

This Ain’t America

This is from a member of the BigSurKate community. She shared it with me and…

1 week ago

Sunday Photo

First Strawberry of the Season, picked yesterday:

1 week ago

Want to help the Tassajara Zen Center? Here is how

To our beloved community, Thank you so much for your outpouring of love and care…

1 week ago

No Kings Day Big Sur

In case you missed it a few days ago when I posted the MoCo protest…

1 week ago

This website uses cookies.